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Lorimer Foundations · Course 1 of 7

Fostering ExplainedYour Role and Your Team

What a foster carer really does, why children need foster homes, and the people who work alongside you every step of the way.

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  • 65minutes, at your pace
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Section 1 · 2 minutes

Welcome

Easy Read

  1. This course is about being a foster carer.
  2. It takes about 1 hour.
  3. At the end there is a short quiz and a certificate.
  4. You can stop and come back later.
  5. You can ask Rachael, Gareth or anyone in our team for help.

This course explains what a foster carer does, and who works alongside you. It is the first of seven courses in Stage 1 Learning, part of the Lorimer Fostering Induction programme. There are more stages of learning after this, and you will find out about them as you go.

By the end, you will be able to

  • Explain what fostering is, and the kinds of fostering Lorimer offers.
  • Describe why and how children come to live with foster carers.
  • Name the people in a child's team, and what each of them does.
  • Understand how Lorimer Fostering will support you, from your first call to your first review.

How this course works

  • Your own paceYour place is saved on this device. The course map shows how far you have come.
  • Check yourselfShort questions help it stick. Nobody else sees your answers.
  • Private notesNotes boxes save on this device only, until you choose to share them.
  • Plain wordsTap a dotted word, like , for a simple explanation.
  • ListenPress Listen on any section to hear it read aloud.
  • A certificatePass the check at the end and print your certificate.
Any questions?Contact Rachael, Gareth or any member of the team.

Section 2 · 3 minutes

Meet the families

Easy Read

  1. You will meet 2 families.
  2. Dele and Sarah live with their sons, Josh and Leo.
  3. Mags lives on her own.
  4. They want to foster.
  5. They have questions, just like you.

Two families travel through all seven courses with you. Their questions are the ones applicants often ask us.

Dele and Sarah, with Josh and Leo

  • Warrington
  • Sons aged 15 and 13
  • Spare room
  • Both working

Dele and Sarah are in their forties. Sarah works in a school office. Dele is a self-employed electrician. They have a spare room and a lot of energy.

We know how to raise our own boys. What we don't know is what it's like to care for a child who has been through a lot.Sarah

Mags

  • Bolton
  • Lives alone
  • Aged 58
  • Works three days a week

Mags's daughter has grown up and moved out. She works at a garden centre, and she has always been the one her friends' children talk to.

I wondered if I'd be allowed to foster on my own, and at my age. I'm glad I asked.Mags

You will see how each family thinks things through. Neither gets everything right first time, and that is the point.

Section 3 · 5 minutes

What fostering is

Easy Read

  1. Fostering means a child comes to live with you.
  2. The child cannot live with their own family for now.
  3. You help the child stay in touch with their family, when it is safe.
  4. Short break means a child stays for a few days.
  5. Short term means weeks, months or longer.
  6. Long term means until the child grows up.
  7. You are part of a team.
  8. You are paid.

Fostering means giving a child a home in your family when they cannot live with their own.

It might be for a weekend, or until they are grown up.

A homeYou are the adult who is there every day: at breakfast, at the school gate, at bedtime.
A bridge to their familyYou don't take the place of the child's parents. You help them keep links with their family, safely.
A professional roleYou are part of a team, you keep records, you keep learning, and you are paid an allowance and a fee.

How long does fostering last?

The kinds of fostering Lorimer offers

Tap a card to find out more.

Short breakSometimes called respite

A child stays for a weekend or a few days, once or regularly, to give their family or carers a rest.

Short term

A few weeks to a year or more, while the child's future is decided.

Long termAlso known as permanence

A home for as long as the child needs it, often into adulthood.

Most Lorimer Fostering carers are approved for more than one kind. You decide, with your assessor, what suits your household.

Could we do short breaks first, to see how the boys cope?Sarah

In a nutshell

  • Fostering gives a child a family home when they can't live with their own.
  • You care for them every day, and help them stay connected to their family.
  • It can last a weekend or until adulthood, and you choose the kinds that suit you.

Section 4 · 6 minutes

Why and how children come into care

Easy Read

  1. About 2 in every 3 children in care live with foster carers.
  2. Children come into care when home is not safe, or their family cannot look after them.
  3. Some children come to the UK with no family here.
  4. It is never the child's fault.
  5. Most of the time, a court decides.
  6. Sometimes parents agree to it.

67 in every 100

children in care in England live with foster carers.

That is 54,820 of the 81,770 children looked after on 31 March 2025.

  • With foster carers
  • Other homes, such as children's homes, supported accommodation or living with their parents

Source: Department for Education, November 2025.

Why children need a foster home

Most children come into care after a mix of problems has made home unsafe, or has left their family unable to look after them well enough.

None of this is the child's fault. Most children miss their parents, even when home was not safe.

How children come into care: two main routes

By agreement

Section 20, Children Act 1989

Parents agree to the council looking after their child.

: stays fully with the parents. They can ask for the child back.

By court order

Section 31, Children Act 1989

A court decides the child is suffering, or likely to suffer, .

Parental responsibility: shared between the parents and the council. The council has the final say on most decisions.

A is a court order made when the plan is adoption. The law has more detail, and your assessor will explain anything that applies to a child you care for.

In a nutshell

  • Two in three children in care live with foster carers.
  • A mix of problems usually makes home unsafe, and it is never the child's fault.
  • Most are in care by court order. Some are in care by agreement with their parents.

Section 5 · 3 minutes

Could it be you?

Lorimer Fostering carers live across Cheshire, Cumbria, Derbyshire, Lancashire, Manchester and Merseyside, and anywhere within about two hours of Manchester. No two households are alike. What they share is a spare bedroom, time, patience, and the wish to make a real difference to a child.

You can foster if you are

  • single, married, living with a partner or divorced
  • renting or owning your home
  • working, part time or full time, or not working
  • any gender, sexuality, faith or ethnicity
  • a parent already, or not

Your life so far counts. Raising a family, working with people or caring for a relative all contribute towards building the skills fostering needs. So does coaching a team, or coming through hard times yourself. Your assessor will talk with you about what you already do well, and the training that will help.

Myth or fact?

Make your guess, then tap to check.

You can't foster if you rent your home.

You have to be married to foster.

You need a spare bedroom.

You can't foster if you work.

Foster carers are not paid.

You can't foster if you smoke or vape.

You can't foster if you have a dog.

You need lots of experience with children.

"Nobody said I was too old. They asked what I'd learnt from bringing up my daughter on my own."

Mags
Could I foster?A quick, private checker. Six questions, two minutes, no details needed.

In a nutshell

  • Lorimer Fostering welcomes people from every background, single or in a couple, renting or owning.
  • What matters is a spare bedroom, time, patience and the wish to help a child.
  • Your life experience counts, and you get training and support from the start.

Section 6 · 7 minutes

Your role, day to day

A foster carer does two jobs at once. You care for a child as any loving parent would, and you work as a professional within a team.

The caring part

  • Keeping the child safe, warm, fed and well.
  • Getting them to school, appointments, clubs and friends' houses.
  • Noticing how they are, listening, and helping them make sense of their feelings.
  • Saying yes to the things their friends do, like a school trip, a football club or a birthday party.
  • Celebrating who they are: their culture, faith, language and interests.

The professional part

  • Most children keep in touch with their family. You help this go well, and tell the team how the child is before and after.
  • Everyday decisions. You can make many day-to-day decisions yourself. This is called , and it is written into the child's . New national standards, consulted on in 2026, say carers should have these decisions by default. They are not in force yet.
  • Records. You write short, factual notes about the child's day in . The will soon replace much of this, and Lorimer Fostering also uses for documents. Good records help the child later in life, and protect you.
  • Meetings. You go to the child's reviews and planning meetings, and speak up for them.
  • Learning. You keep learning throughout your fostering life.

A day in a foster carer's life

Here is one ordinary day for Mags, a few weeks after Amira, 12, came to live with her. No two days are the same.

  1. 07:00
    Breakfast

    Mags and Amira get ready for the day. A calm morning sets the tone.

  2. 08:30
    School run

    A quick chat at the gate with Amira's teacher about a trip next week.

  3. 10:00
    A visit from Monique, her supervising social worker

    They talk about how Amira is settling, and plan for her review.

  4. 12:30
    Learning

    Half an hour on her TSD workbook, with a cup of tea.

  5. 15:15
    School pick-up

    Amira talks most in the car, so Mags lets her lead.

  6. 16:30
    Family time

    Mags drops Amira off for an hour with her mum, and picks her up after.

  7. 18:00
    Tea together

    Amira chose tonight's tea. Small choices help her feel at home.

  8. 19:30
    Record what happened

    She updates her My Week Carer Log: how the day went, how family time went, and anything to share with the team.

  9. 21:00
    Bedtime

    A story, a chat, and the landing light left on.

  10. Any hour
    Help is there

    If something worries her in the night, Mags can call the Lorimer Fostering team, 24 hours a day.

Learning with Lorimer Fostering

  1. Stage 1 LearningThe seven Lorimer Foundations courses, including this one. They are the first stage of the Induction programme.
  2. In your first yearThe national , with workbooks, support and time to finish them within 12 months.
  3. For every carerSafeguarding, first aid, de-escalation, reporting and recording, internet safety, safer caring and managing allegations.
  4. As you growExtra learning matched to the children you care for, plus support groups and workshops.

"I thought the paperwork would put me off. It's a few lines a day, and it means nothing gets forgotten."

Dele

In a nutshell

  • You do two jobs: caring like a loving parent, and working as a professional in a team.
  • You help with family time, make the everyday decisions set out in the placement plan, and keep short records.
  • Learning carries on throughout your fostering life.

Section 7 · 6 minutes

Your team

You know the child best, day to day. Around you are two teams: the child's team, led by the council, and your team at Lorimer Fostering.

Tap a role to see who they are, what they do, and what they will ask of you.

The child's team

The childAt the centre of every decision
You, the foster carerDaily care, and the child's voice in the team

Your Lorimer Fostering team

Choose a role above.

The child's social worker leads the plan. Your supervising social worker supports you to carry it out. You speak up for the child in both teams.

Meet your Lorimer Fostering team

These are the people you will get to know. We use first names, just as we do day to day.

Supervising social workers

One of them will be yours once you are approved.

  • ClaireSenior Supervising Social Worker
  • GarethSupervising Social Worker
  • LiamSupervising Social Worker
  • MoniqueSupervising Social Worker

Therapeutic Fostering

Ceri and Gareth lead this work. Ceri runs drop-in workshops and one-to-one sessions.

  • CeriLeads Therapeutic Fostering
  • GarethLeads Therapeutic Fostering

Youth Engagement

Activities for children and young people, and making sure their views shape what we do.

  • ClaireAdvanced Therapeutic Intervention Worker

Leading Lorimer Fostering

Responsible for the quality and safety of everything we do.

  • JonathanResponsible Individual and Managing Director
  • RachaelDirector and Fostering Adviser
  • LeanneRegistered Manager

Office team

Your first point of contact for forms, training, records and everyday questions.

  • JessBusiness Support Officer
  • SophiaBusiness Support Officer
  • StephBusiness Support Officer
  • CeriBusiness Support Officer
  • BethMarketing Officer

"I thought I'd be on my own once the assessment ended. It's the opposite."

Mags

In a nutshell

  • The child is at the centre, with two teams around them.
  • The child's social worker leads the plan. Your supervising social worker supports you.
  • You speak up for the child in both teams.

Section 8 · 5 minutes

How Lorimer Fostering supports you

You will never foster alone. Lorimer has been a family-owned and family-run fostering agency since 2004, and some of our team have been with us for over 20 years.

Your own supervising social workerA qualified social worker who knows your family. Their caseload is kept small, so they have time for you.Claire, Gareth, Liam and Monique
Regular visitsFrom weekly to monthly while a child lives with you. Cover is arranged if your worker is away.
Help at any hourSomeone to talk to 24 hours a day, every day of the year. You get the on-call number when you are approved.
A supervision agreementA written plan for how your support will work, made with you.
A Family Safer Care PlanA plan for keeping everyone in your home safe, plus an Individual Safer Care Plan for each child.
Support groupsEvery 2 to 4 months, with other carers, news from the agency and sometimes a guest speaker.
FosterTalk, paid by LorimerIndependent advice, legal help and thousands of discounts.
The and newsletterPolicies, guides, forms and monthly news in one place.
Allowance and feeA weekly allowance for each child, a weekly fee for your skills, and mileage for some journeys.
An annual reviewEvery year your fostering is reviewed, with the child's views heard. Your first review is at about 9 months.
"The agency is totally professional. We feel fully supported in our role and there is always someone there to help."
A Lorimer foster carer, September 2025

In a nutshell

  • You have your own supervising social worker, with regular visits.
  • Help is there 24 hours a day, every day of the year.
  • Support groups, FosterTalk, the Lorimer Portal and your annual review all help you along the way.

Build your support network

When fostering gets tiring, who would you ring first? Tap to add them. You can type a first name if you like. This stays on your device.

You
Your Lorimer Fostering team, 24 hours a day

    No one added yet. Most carers find three or four people make a big difference.

    Section 9 · 5 minutes

    Listening to children

    Children in care have had many decisions made about them by adults. Being listened to helps them feel safe, settle and trust again. It also helps you notice when something is wrong.

    What listening looks like

    • Making time when they want to talk, which is often in the car or at bedtime, not when you planned it.
    • Taking their views seriously, even when the answer has to be no, and explaining why.
    • Helping them say what they want at their own reviews, or write it down.
    • Telling them who else they can talk to, including an .

    How Lorimer Fostering hears children

    • Every child gets the Lorimer Children's Guide: one for younger children, one for those aged 12 and over. Young people living with Lorimer Fostering carers helped write them, and there is an audio version.
    • Our Youth Engagement Team runs activities and gathers children's views, so they shape how we work.
    • Every year, children are asked for their views as part of their carers' review.

    Questions children want to ask you

    When we asked children living with Lorimer Fostering carers what they would want to know about a new home, they asked:

    Questions from children

    "Will I have my own room?"

    "What would you cook for tea?"

    "Would you always be truthful to the child?"

    In a nutshell

    • Listening helps children feel safe and learn to trust again.
    • Take their views seriously, even when the answer has to be no.
    • Lorimer Fostering hears children through the Children's Guide, the Youth Engagement Team and reviews.

    Section 10 · 6 minutes

    Seeing the whole child

    Children don't grow evenly. A 10-year-old might read like a 14-year-old but manage their temper like a 5-year-old.

    Seven areas of growth help you and the team see what a child does well. They also show where the child needs more help. Tap an area.

    Choose an area to see what you might notice, and do.

    Children who have missed out on care early on can catch up. Steady, kind care makes a real difference. You will learn much more in Course 2, Behind the Behaviour.

    The seven areas come from the government's Looking After Children work (Parker and others, 1991), explained here in our own words.

    In a nutshell

    • Children grow in seven areas, often at different speeds.
    • The seven areas help the whole team see what is going well, and what needs help.
    • Steady, kind care helps children catch up.

    Section 11 · 4 minutes

    Your journey with Lorimer Fostering

    Every application is different, but these are the main steps from your first contact to your first review.

    1. First contact

      Most people get in touch through Facebook, Indeed, a phone call or our website. Rachael or another member of the team answers your questions and takes a few details. We usually reply within one working day, and often within minutes.

    2. Foundations

      Start the seven Lorimer Foundations courses at your own pace. They help you learn what fostering involves before the next steps.

    3. Informal video chat

      A relaxed chat on Microsoft Teams. After that, one or two of our team usually visit you at home.

    4. Apply

      You sign the application form. Once you have applied, we ask you for more information so we can send off the checks we need. We introduce your assessing social worker.

    5. Stage 1 Assessment

      This is mainly about sending off checks: DBS, references, medical and local authority checks. Our office team does this for you.

    6. Stage 2 Assessment

      Your assessing social worker comes to visit you at home, over about 8 or so sessions. You also visit Lorimer House to meet the team.

    7. Fostering Assessment Report

      You read your assessment report, ask for any changes and sign it. Leanne, our Registered Manager, visits you before panel.

    8. Panel

      You meet the fostering panel, who make a recommendation. This is usually about 4 to 5 months after you apply.

    9. Decision and approval

      Our Agency Decision Maker decides, usually within two weeks. We ring you, then email the letter. You sign your foster care agreement and meet your supervising social worker.

    10. First child

      We match a child to your family with care, and plan their arrival with you.

    11. First review

      At about nine months, your fostering is reviewed and the panel sees it. You also complete your TSD Standards within your first 12 months, with our help.

    In a nutshell

    • There are eleven main steps from your first contact to your first review. Most people are approved 4 to 7 months after they first get in touch.
    • The panel recommends, and the Agency Decision Maker decides.
    • Your first review is at about 9 months.

    Section 12 · 6 minutes

    What would you do?

    Two short moments from the families' first months. Pick an answer to see what happens. There are no wrong turns that end the story.

    Scenario 1 · Mags

    The sleepover

    Amira, 12, has lived with Mags for three weeks. A school friend has invited her to a sleepover on Saturday. Amira is excited. Mags has met the friend's mum once.

    What would you do?

    Scenario 2 · Dele and Sarah

    After family time

    Kai, 9, lives with Dele and Sarah. He comes back from seeing his mum quiet and angry. At tea he throws his fork and shouts at Leo.

    What would you do?

    In a nutshell

    • Know what the placement plan lets you decide, and ask when you are unsure.
    • When feelings run high, stay calm and close, then listen, record and share.

    Section 13 · 5 minutes

    Check yourself and finish

    Five quick questions. Your answers stay on this device. They are not sent to Lorimer Fostering.

    Question 1 of 5About how many children in care in England live with foster carers?

    Finish the course

    1. Look back at your notes. or
    2. Send your answers to Lorimer Fostering. Once you finish the check above, a short form appears. If you did this course as a couple, add both your names on one form.
    3. Talk through your notes with your assessor at your next session.

    Section 14 · 2 minutes

    About this course

    Course
    LF2522 Fostering Explained: Your Role and Your Team
    Programme
    Lorimer Foundations, Course 1 of 7
    Version
    2.0
    Written by
    Lorimer Fostering's learning team
    Next review
    12 months after release

    The law and guidance this course rests on

    Sources and credits

    • Children looked after in England, year ending 31 March 2025, Department for Education. Contains public sector information licensed under the Open Government Licence v3.0.
    • The seven areas of a child's development: Department of Health, Looking After Children (Parker and others, 1991), and the Framework for the Assessment of Children in Need and their Families (2000). Explained in our own words.
    • All text written by Lorimer Fostering, 2026. Illustrations drawn for Lorimer Fostering.
    • © 2026 Lorimer Fostering.

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